Most men already know about these things, but did not because women do not realize how important the little things for women. Men really believe that the little things that are not important compared to the great things he did for his partner.
At the beginning of a relationship, he may do the little things. But after a couple of times, he stopped. Due to a mysterious instinct, they began to focus energy to do one big thing for his partner. They then forget to do all the little things necessary to make a woman feel satisfied in the relationship. To satisfy women, men must understand that women need merasadisayang and supported. So, how to conduct man to a woman feel loved and supported? Here is John Gray, Ph.D., expose it through his book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
At the beginning of a relationship, he may do the little things. But after a couple of times, he stopped. Due to a mysterious instinct, they began to focus energy to do one big thing for his partner. They then forget to do all the little things necessary to make a woman feel satisfied in the relationship. To satisfy women, men must understand that women need merasadisayang and supported. So, how to conduct man to a woman feel loved and supported? Here is John Gray, Ph.D., expose it through his book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus.
Here's to the 20 Things That Make Women spele feel loved
- Arriving home, find her first before doing anything else, and give her a hug.
- Ask specific questions about his days, which shows an awareness of what to do (eg, "How did the doctor? ').
- Practice listening and asking questions.
- Resist the temptation to solve her problems. Instead, come to feel.
- Give him your full attention for 20 minutes (do not read newspapers or show anything else during this time).
- Bring her cut flowers as a surprise as well as on special occasions.
- Plan a date several days in advance, do not wait sampal Saturday night and asked him what he wanted to do.
- If he is usually making dinner or her turn. and he seems tired or very busy, offer to prepare dinner.
- Compliment her on her appearance.
- Respect her feelings if she was angry.
- Offer to help him when he was exhausted.
- Schedule extra time when traveling so that he does not need to rush.
- If you are going to be late, call her and let her know.
- If she asks for support, say yes or no without making her feel guilty for asking.
- If you hurt her feelings, show empathy and say to him "I'm sorry you're offended." Then be quiet; let
- him feel that you understand her hurt. Do not offer solutions or explanations why her hurt is not your fault.
- If you feel compelled to pull away, let her know you will return. Or that you need time to reflect on everything.
- If you are calm and appearing again, talk about what was bothering you with respect. Not by way of blame. So he does not imagine the worst.
- Offer to make a fire in the winter.
- When she talks to you, put a newspaper or turn off the TV and give him your full attention.
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